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My host is holding my files hostage

  1. I have a blog hosted on someone’s WordPress site, and due to a personal conflict having nothing to do with the blog, they have chosen to make my files unavailable to me. The files have nothing to do with them. However I do not have access to the files now.

    We had a conflict over a financial situation, and they are bringing my blog into the situation by demanding me to do something they want. The files don’t do them any good. It’s just a matter of telling me that if I don’t do something specific, they won’t release my file.

    These files are the culmination of three years’ research which I am using to write a book. All my information for that book is in these blog posts (unpublished, of course). Is there any way I can request WordPress to force the host to release my files to me?

  2. I don’t have access to their usernames or passwords to try to go in and get my files out.

  3. What is the URL of the site that is “holding your files hostage.”

  4. gracethegamer.com

  5. I don’t want any action taken against her. I just want my files.

  6. My blog is worrellsworld.gracethegamer.com

  7. If I could just get the files for worrellsworld.gracethegamer.com moved over here, that would be fine too. I can give you my username and password for logging in at worrellsworld if I have to verify that info.

  8. If these “files” are not visible to the public, there isn’t any way we can go extract them. Breaking into someone else’s computer is a criminal offense.

    As for forcing them to release the files, that’s something you will need to do, even if it goes all the way to court. This is one of those cases (and there are constantly way too many of them) where people should take personal responsibility to keep copies (more than one) of their own files. For example I regularly download the XML file of my blog here at WP.com.

  9. ah ok

  10. A bit of Google search work and it Looks like a plain old domestic dispute

  11. Bad news. That is not a WordPress.COM blog but a WordPress.ORG blog and we won’t be able to help you with that. This is one reason all authors should have backups of their blogs.

    Google MAY have a cached version of your blog posts. That’s all I can suggest.

  12. even if they are unpublished?

  13. I want to delete this topic

  14. You can’t. It remains here for the benefit of other people who may be in similar situations.

    If the blog posts were published, it’s likely that Google has a cached version. If they were private, you’re probably out of luck unless you can settle with her.

  15. If they were never visible to the public in any way, Google would not see them. OTOH, if some obscure link let to them in a way that humans would have not see, Google could follow that and find them.

    The forum thread cannot be deleted except maybe by special staff action, but I doubt they do that.

  16. At least you have a new blog, now. Publish what you want as long as it is within the limits of the ToS.

We're SO done here

We're SO done here


Sooo, what’s new with you?

I hate my baby as his father is a rapist

  1. I am Gladys an orphan with an 8 months old baby i am desperately giving him for adoption and this is a sad experience as i never thought it will ever come my way.I am of age 19 and i lost my both parents at the age of 11 and was taken into the house of my uncle where i was consoled just for a couple of months and later on i started feeling the pains of the world today.My uncle was put in charge of all my Dad’s property and i thought i had every right to be educated but instead i was turned into a Nani in my own Dad’s house since as my uncle moved in with his wife and my cousins his children.They all went to school while i stayed at home to cook and i was promised to i was going to do a trade so as to be able to manage my father’s businesses when i come of age,and as childish as i was,i thought it was the best for me and accepted but i was never even given the opportunity to learn the trade and my uncles wife pretended to like me but when my uncle was not around she will beat me up for not carrying out any chore she assigned me to do like wash clothes,take care of her baby,clean the house trim flowers,cook for the entire house and baby etc…

    I became use to all these before i was 16 years of age but could not bare it when i began to be mature and menstruate.When i told my uncle about this,he will want to see me bleed and innocently trying to show him,he will try to force himself on me to sleep with me and on different several occasions,he will do this to no avail and so i had to escape.I tried getting jobs at several places to make end meet but most owners of such places will only want me to sleep with them or the clients there so they could be payed and us me like a whore.I really miss my parents at this point in time which is the more reason i have come to seek for advice on the worst part of my life as i was raped in an uncompleted building where i will pass my nights due to hardship by 4 boys and they got me pregnant without my knowledge but i realized for some time i was unable to see my period and began frequent vomiting and fever,i consulted hiddenly without letting my boss know about it and i was given a positive pregnancy result.I became more confused and tried working with the pregnancy while i keep some money for an abortion but i was already 6 months pregnant and my boss discovered i was pregnant when she saw the results of the test i made in my uniform.This earned me a sack and i tried to plead and explain my life to her but she will not hear me out.I gave birth to a baby boy and the troma of how to look after him left me with no option but killing him as i tried running from the hospital as i had no money for bills but could not succeed.I was made to work at the hospital to cover up my bills and for 8 months now i have been leaving by the grace of God as i have no job and no money to look after this child and it forsakes me to think that he has no father.All i could think of right now is ending my life here if i do not have some advice for anyone reading my experiences or willing to help as i intend giving him out far away to a family who will be able to take care of him for adoption or i will either kill him of kill myself any time i feel like.Please if you could help me out with advice or if you are ready to adopt him,i will be happy to give him out to someone far away i could hardly think off.If his father stumbles on this,i wish to say may God reward you in your own coins.Please email me on gladysrunaway@yahoo.co.uk

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  3. I’m afraid the unwed mother baby spam plugin is not supported at WordPress.com. You will need to be over at http://www.latfh.com/ for that.

Harassment Proof struckbyenlightning.wordpress.com

  1. struckbyenlightning needs to have their account deleted for harassing me from RichardDawkins.net forums. This is a conversation between her and another member who have been sending me hate messages–they are actually putting it out there that I don’t moderate so I’m an easy target.
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    by VictorTheSixth » Fri Oct 02, 2009 7:26 am

    ^Blog of Creationist^

    It’s amazing what someone can do with the net if they have a bit of time on their hands. I’m not at all saying that people should go to this Creationist’s blog, point out her idiocies, and trash it. I’m just mildly hinting that she doesn’t have her comment sections Moderated .VictorTheSixth
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    by LinzeeBinzee » Fri Oct 02, 2009 7:53 am

    VictorTheSixth wrote:
    Seems she decided to leave… were I a crueler man, I’d suggest that we track down her blog

    Haha, not just yet…she just posted something new. She quoted her husband who said “If you touch shit, you get shit on you”…and then went on to scold someone else for posting a rude comment on her blog. Hilarious! I urged her to continue the conversation though because so far it’s been fun!http://struckbyenlightning.wordpress.com/
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    by thoughtseeker » Fri Oct 02, 2009 1:02 pm

    Hi, you are both in violation of this site’s code, and you are harassing the owner of Poet Verse. Take down the link and cease commenting on my blog or I will take legal action against this forum as well as you-I have your IP addresses.


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  2. Um, they’re not in violation of anything. You can’t take legal action against someone because they disagree with you and you don’t like that. I kind of doubt you have their IP addresses, like it matters anyway.

    So, yeah. You can’t control what people say just because you don’t like it. I see no harassment here at all.

  3. Done a little more looking…

    So, someone linked to your blog and asked their fellow members to go comment on it. I read somewhere that you’re a lawyer–I hope not. Basic things like harassment shouldn’t need explained to you.

  4. Actually, conspiring to inundate my blog with hate messages is harassment. And yes, I am well studied in law and know what rights I have.

  5. I noticed you are an atheist. Being an atheist is fine, and I don’t care what you are–or what you say–but no one has a right to send people to my blog to send me hate mail…which I have saved.

  6. What you perceive as hate mail and what someone else perceives as hate mail can be very different. I’d like to see some of these hate messages, from my own investigation, I haven’t found anything particularly offensive.

    And sorry, but it’s perfectly okay to link to a blog and tell people to go to it. Even if I tell people to go refute what’s being said. If there is something purely hateful or threatening, I will reverse my opinion, but from what I can see, that’s very unlikely.

  7. It should be noted that poetverse engaged struckbyenlightning at the latters blog, basically spewing a bunch of nonsense and rude comments. Sruckbyenlightning, a member of RD.net, posted on that forum, asking what to do about poetverse, and how to engage her in a debate, with poetverse apparently not being very well versed in logical thinking. A couple of RD.net members commented on struckbyenlightning’s blog, debunking poetverse’s nonsense, and poetverse got vile.

    A couple of people took it upon themselves to let poetverse know that she can’t behave however she pleases, and commented on her blog. Poetverse immediately started censoring her comments section, claiming harassment, and subsequently threatened legal action towards RD.net.

    In my opinion, poetverse is a highly emotionally disturbed person, apparently unable to see the hypocrisy in her behavior. She’s not to be taken seriously.

  8. Umm I didn’t ask anyone to post on your blog, I didn’t even ask them to post on my blog! How ridiculous!

  9. @poetverse,

    Surely you’ve figured out by now that you can easily set your comments to moderation. Just go into your dashboard and set the discussion settings so that anyone who has already comment can comment without moderation. All others get modded first.

    And for those you don’t want to comment at all, you can block them by name, by IP address, by URL, the works. Just set it up and you’re fine.

  10. Actions by people on third-party sites, like the Dawkins one, don’t generally have any legal ramifications on WordPress.com.

  11. Actually, I saved all of the messages and I have put up moderation and now have Ips blocked, but my point is that my blog was targeted as a place to spew hate…and no…the comments were not disagreements…I was called names, insulted….

    You do have the right to free speech, but no–you don’t have the right to promote my blog to your friends as a place to send hate mail–that is harassment.

    Acutally, raincoaster, you are wrong. If a wordpress.com user posts my wordpress.com link on another site and, with friends, conspires that I should have my blog inundated with hate mail because it doesn’t look like I am moderated–that falls under harassment.

    And by the way, I went to her blog not because of an atheist post–it was a post about how she saw a movie and lost her faith–it was only later that I learned that it was an atheist pit. You see…plenty of atheists put posts under tags that are misleading so you don’t know you are on a devout atheist’s blog–that is her fault for using incorrect tags.

  12. I didn’t tell anyone to go to your blog.

    What kind of hateful comments did you get? Did any of them come from me? I don’t remember saying anything hateful to you so I don’t see how you can be justified in saying my blog should be taken down.

    How was I using tags incorrectly?

    Also, in the post that you commented on I said that I’m an atheist so I don’t know why you thought you weren’t commenting on an atheist blog.

    btw there’s no such thing as a devout atheist. There is no dogma of atheism, so nothing to be devoted to. It’s simply the absence of belief in gods.

  13. If you think you’re being harassed, why aren’t you talking to a lawyer? Posting comments on third-party sites, even nasty, name-calling ones that encourage people to spam your blog, isn’t against the terms of service here; they relate only to actions here.

  14. Ladies (I’m guessing here) have you considered taking your little drama to your own blogs? Flamewars are awesome for hits; why throw them away on the forum?

    And at this point not even GOD cares whether you’re atheists or not, really: it’s not a WordPress.com issue.

  15. pornstarbabylon
    Oct 2, 2009, 7:31 AM

    Unless they post personal information like name and address, then let the comments go through and make new posts out of them. I was banned from a forum once, well many times, and I blogged about it. Many of them came to my blog and left angry comments and it was just an all out war. It lasted for weeks. One of my haters sent in an angry letter to a very popular site and he ran it. I sent in my reply. I post it all my blog. They comment again and it’s a war again. Fabulous for traffic. Raincoaster ^^ had the entire country of Albania hating her on her blog one time!

  16. Uh, this poetverse broad’s NAME links to her blog. I, for one, took it upon myself to return the bilious textual vomit she was constantly dropping on struckbyenlightening’s blog. It’s a ludicrous assertion that Linzee ordered people to inundate poetverse’s blog with hate mail. I just did it because she’s a hypocritical twat who cries foul when her own vitriolic hatred is thrown back at her. No one told me to do it.
    As for flame wars, I’m all for that. I love me some flaming. Maybe I’ll get hits on MY blog (that sucks more than catholic priest). I’m not even sure I’ve posted an entry. I should… for the whole overflow of the flamage. I need a pee.

  17. “Ladies (I’m guessing here) have you considered taking your little drama to your own blogs? Flamewars are awesome for hits; why throw them away on the forum?”

    I’d rather get hits because people are interested in what I have
    to say.

    Besides, she won’t even let me comment on her blog…here’s what I posted there and it was deleted:

    “This is clearly in response to the discussion we were having on my blog as you posted the same thing in the comments over there, so hopefully you’re ok with me responding here.

    You’re complaining that there are hateful blogs out there that say things that you find hurtful, and then you call my blog shit. Is that not hurtful or mean-spirited?

    I’m an atheist and I discuss my lack of beliefs on my blog, and I don’t understand how that can be seen as hateful. If I did say something that was hateful or that insulted you personally then I would appreciate if you could point that out so that I can apologize. I always try my best to criticize only the arguments, and not the person making them, so I’m sorry if I said something to insult you directly.

    I said it over there and I’ll say it again here, I thought we were having a good back-and-forth, and I would very much like to continue it.

    Thanks for letting me comment, hopefully we can continue our discussion either here or back on my blog.”

    Carolina – what about that offended you so much that you didn’t want other people to see it??? Sure seems like you can’t take criticism but you have no problem dishing it out.

  18. What does atheist have to with it?
    I read a bit of what you have said and i all i see is bam, aka bitch and moan.

    I don’t mean to be brutal, but shut up, get a real ride and find a real problem to bam about

  19. Just a note–I don’t know of anyone that tags all their posts by the topic of their blog.

  20. Oops.

    It’s not misleading to not tag your blog by what it’s about. I see you don’t tag all your posts by Catholicism or Creationism, you misleading devil worshiper.

  21. 45flight, I don’t CARE if you’re a fundie or a godless heathen, I love you.

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Or she wouldn’t be putting up post after post so fast her spelling and grammar are shot to hell.

Hawt Post (9 posts)

  1. How does an individual, get to be on the front page with a Hawt Post?

  2. i wouldn’t know, but i guess you’d post something really argument inspiring, and then get people to read you blog via forums. that’s how i’d do it, anyways…

  3. Lacy low cut bra’s always helps.
    Unless you’re a man baby!

  4. what the hell is a hawt post and who cares?

  5. If you don’t care, why are you posting in the Hawt Post thread?

    You get to be Hawt Post by meeting the criteria of some algorithm created by staff. It’s some sort of combination of fastest-growing hits and a number of other factors. It roughly measures how “on fire” your blog is at the present moment. Would be neat if we had a measure for ALL blogs, not just the #1.

    There’s also http://botd.wordpress.com

  6. raincoaster? because I can

  7. Nasty remark………that was out of line and uncalled for.

  8. what is a raincoaster? i would thing a little simple courtesy would be in order here. what is wrong with you and your attitude?>

  9. Nasty remark? You mean yours?

    Oh, honey, have a full refund.

UPDATED WITH BONUS from my comments section: Read the rest of this entry »

  1. Hi there,

    I’m a newbie on wordpress.com and can’t figure out why the date of my latest post isn’t showing on the main page? I’ve added the calender but it doesn’t seem to be showing which date the page was published?

    My blog is http://www.mayellaboo.wordpress.com


  2. You have set your main landing page as a static page instead of the standard blog page which shows your posts. Pages are for static material that seldom changes, and that is why dates or times are not shown on pages. Posts will show dates, but I am unaware of any themes here that show times on posts.

    Just in case you unfamiliar with the differences between posts and pages I’m including the following link to a support document that explains the difference: http://support.wordpress.com/post-vs-page/

  3. Thanks for your help.

  4. You’re welcome.

  5. The Thirteen Theme shows the time of a post.

  6. jalexartis
    Typo alert:
    but I am unaware of any themes here that show times on posts.
    should read:
    but I am unaware of any themes here that show times on pages.

  7. Kubrick shows dates and times of posts and comments.

  8. No dates or time on pages, though.

  9. Seems rossfromwash’s got a thing with comments: more than half of his forum posts today refer to comments in response to questions that have nothing to do with comments.

    For the record, the posting time is displayed in 23 themes. Kubrick is not one of them.

  10. Makes sense because his blog is mostly comments.

    You should have a blog with all these interesting tidbits you pop up with!

  11. (Crossed my mind…)

  12. That’s great!

  13. Well, I guess i’ll leave to help forum to you experts. You seem to be doing a fine job. You’ve helped me so much I dont even feel the need to post in this forum anymore. Its kind of like someone asks you if the sky is blue, you run outside look and come back and say, no its grey today. Thanks so much!!
    By the way, I do know the difference between posts, pages and comments. But if you think about it, you can work around the limitations and manage to achieve the effect you want, even if its not what the terminology you are using seems to suggest you would like to do.
    Instead of saying constantly, you cant do this and you cant do that, how about saying, “you can do this to achieve the desired effect”.

    Q: …can’t figure out why the date of my latest post isn’t showing on the main page?

    Then after explaining why it is not showing…..

    A: You could work around that problem by manually typeing in the date and time on the “page” or “post”.

    Yes i’m off topic, thanks for the reminder. Have fun “helping” people.

  14. Door, ass, you know how it works.

    I know friends of yours who worked for Obama. They say you’re a total pain in the ass and they can’t take you anywhere, because you’re not properly socialized.


  15. wow. raincoaster,

    did I miss something?

    There are annoying people sometimes, but usually you are so polite. Some of annoying folk annoy even me and this one seems to be saying good-bye…

  16. Oh, this dude has blown a lot of hot air and acted like a know-it all while giving the wrong answers from day one, so I’ve had my eye on him. It takes a lot to make my radar, but he did it. He’s an ass.

    And what I said his cohorts said about him? Is absolutely true. That’s what they said.

  17. ok.
    I did answer the fellow on this forum,and thought he was not understanding basic concepts of life, well blogging…
    Some folk go their own way.
    Thoreau and different drummers

  18. I honestly think he does NOT understand the basic concepts.

  19. When did you become such an asshole Lorraine? You honestly do NOT understand the basic concepts. In fact your prolific garbage is only rivaled by your OWN hot air. We are all tired of hearing it.

  20. Ah, the old “the lurkers are with me.” I haven’t seen it in so long I thought it had retired.

    If you can look up my real name, Ross, you have perhaps also realized that I live in a different country. If I’ve heard this, many MANY people have heard this. And they’ve just seen this, too.

How can I stop people from making a new post? (23 posts)

  1. How can I stop people from making a new post? I don’t want anyone to make a post. I just want them to comment only. I want to reserve new posts for me only. Thanks.

    College Mom

  2. Please stop posting the same question more than once.

  3. Get a life, ellaella. This is my first time on here. Don’t you know what mistakes are? Your too wound up. Loosen up and enjoy life more.

    God bless

  4. Now THAT was completely uncalled for. Have an enema and a happy day 🙂

  5. Thank you, rain.

    And you’re welcome, collegemom.

  6. I think Raincoaster was saying that you were completely uncalled for in whish she is right. Chill out.

  7. No, raincoaster was saying that your throwing attitude around is not acceptable, even if it’s covered in rainbow stickers and wrapped in a bow covered in My Little Ponys.

    If you want the volunteers in the forum to help you, you have to stop reading emotion into posts that contain only instruction. If you want insult, well, you insult someone. And then you may find that, having lowered the bar, you are no longer comfortable with the bar set that low.

  8. She was the one throwing the attitude around. She didn’t have to say anything at all about my mulitble posts. She did not word it in a helpful instructional manner. I am new to this and mistakes happen. I was shocked she even made the comment. I would never had told someone that. Sorry about the confusion. I just may never get on here again. People are too sensitive. 🙂

  9. http://en.forums.wordpress.com/profile/collegemom2

    Don’t be shocked when people correct you for making mistakes. Correcting people is one thing; it’s what we do in a technical help forum. Blaming them is another, and that’s what you did. It has no place here.

  10. Can someone give me instructional comments on the question I am asking? I really need help. Thanks.

  11. Yes, follow the link ella posted to her response to your post in one of your other threads.

  12. I feel attacked for just making a mistake. Gosh, I hope others aren’t attached when they make a mistake. I am moving on and forgetting this whole question.

    Sorry to everyone else who had to read all these comments that had nothing to do with my questions.

  13. I saw that. Ella’s response is the right answer. collegemom2 seems to be so wound up that she forgot to go read what ella said.

  14. I cross-linked them all, tess, to save people the time of answering twice. Thrice.

  15. collegemom2 is going back to the other threads to leave an additional “get a life” comment. I will make no comment on that.

  16. She still hasn’t said thank you on any of her duplicate threads. Good thing I’m not sensitive…

  17. Thank you. 🙂

  18. If you look at the way the blog is structured:


    You’ll see that she’s set it up so that she wants to charge people for the right to comment on her blog. Going back to ella’s point, there seems to be some confusion there about the different roles on WordPress.com blogs, and a review is in order. We can, as David B Dale pointed out on yet another of these threads, all go to her blog and comment, without paying her $5 membership fee.

  19. Is that kosher, charging to comment on a .com blog?

  20. Is pay pal kosher?

  21. OIC. She wants to charge people to sell stuff using her blog to sell it. Alrighty then.

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